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तस्मात्प्रणम्य प्रणिधाय कायं प्रसादये त्वामहमीशमीड्यम्। पितेव पुत्रस्य सखेव सख्युः प्रियः प्रियायार्हसि देव सोढुम्।।

tasmāt praṇamya praṇidhāya kāyaṁ prasādaye tvām aham īśam īḍyam piteva putrasya sakheva sakhyuḥ priyaḥ priyāyārhasi deva soḍhum

tasmāt (therefore) praṇamya (offering obeisances) praṇidhāya (prostrating) kāyam (the body) prasādaye (begging mercy) tvām (You) aham (I) īśam (the Lord) īḍyam (worshipable) pitā iva (like a father) putrasya (with a son) sakhā iva (like a friend) sakhyuḥ (with a friend) priyaḥ (a lover) priyāyai (with the beloved) arhasi (You should) deva (O Lord) soḍhum (tolerate).

You are the Supreme Lord, to be worshiped by every living being. Thus I fall down to offer You my respectful obeisances and ask Your mercy. As a father tolerates the impudence of his son, or a friend tolerates the impertinence of a friend, or a wife tolerates the familiarity of her partner, please tolerate the wrongs I may have done You.

Arjuna performs a full physical prostration, laying his body flat on the ground. He begs for mercy from the worshipable Lord. He asks Kṛṣṇa to forgive his offenses just as a father tolerates his son’s mistakes, a friend overlooks a friend’s impudence, or a lover forgives the beloved. He appeals to the Lord’s personal affection to bridge the gap created by His majesty. This is a plea for the return of intimacy. Arjuna realizes he has made mistakes, but he relies on the bond of love to seek a pardon. He lists the three closest human relationships to show that God is not a cold judge, but a loving relative. He wants Kṛṣṇa to step out of His ‘impersonal’ cosmic role and back into His ‘personal’ role as Arjuna’s guardian. It teaches us that surrender is not just about fear, but about returning to a relationship. We can approach God with the same confidence a child has with a parent. Despite our flaws and our lack of reverence, Kṛṣṇa’s love is ‘soḍhum’—tolerant and patient. This verse encourages us to be honest about our mistakes and trust in the Lord’s capacity to forgive.